Self Knowledge – How To Use It To Improve Your Relationship Part 2

In Part 1 you discovered how to use your self knowledge to improve your relationship, and two important tips on how to use this knowledge. Let’s move on now with some more tips and where you can get detailed ways to put these techniques into action and reclaim, or improve, your relationship with the love of your life.

3)  People need to know that they do a great job in their relationship.

And this applies to both YOU yourself and to your partner!

With this understanding, you would realize that when people are frustrated by too many rules, a not-so-understanding-and-appreciative partner, they’ll want to look for elsewhere to breathe. Or, they’ll gravitate towards someone else who will make them feel appreciated. And you wouldn’t want this to happen, would you!

To help your partner stay in the relationship or marriage, give them the care and understanding they deserve and desire. Also, try to understand and realize what it is that your partner is seeking from the relationship.

Don’t try to ask your mate what is it they want. At times, they’ll find it hard to answer you. They might say things like “I don’t really know what I want”, “I don’t know who I am”, or words to this effect.

Make a study of all the people around you. Observe them closely. Ask yourself why you are behaving the way you are. Why is your mate behaving and thinking the way he/she does.

I can guaranteed you that you’ll learn more about yourself and your mate than you’ll learn in school or through your undirected life experiences. This self knowledge requires your independent study, internalisation and then application to your relationship.

4)  People want to do something meaningful in their work and their life!

Many people mistakenly think that once they go into a relationship with their partners they can dictate how their partners live their life. This is not true.

All of us want to do something meaningful in their work today and life today. We are constantly looking for ways to make a difference, either for ourselves, for other people or for our loved ones!

And yes, this is a need. It is that which makes us feel alive and vital as a human.

For many women, they see their interpersonal relationships as their most meaning work in life. But remember that this is not true for most men. Men often see something else as their meaningful work in life and you have to work around
looking after both your needs and his needs.

Don’t dictate how your mate is going to live his or her life. At times, they need to go through certain aspects of life and circumstances to learn powerful lessons from them. They might meet with certain obstacles and difficulties that may directly or indirectly affect his or her relationship with you.

What you can do is to offer your support, your care and your understanding.

In Parts 1 and 2  I’ve shared with you several ways you can use your self knowledge to improve your relationship immensely.  Two guides in the ebook review section of this blog (Bring Back The Love Of Your Life and Win Back Love), will provide you with excellent additional guidance on this important subject and I commend both of them to you.

CAUTION: The relationship advice in this post is only a brief introduction to this important subject, and should NOT be used without the benefit of the additional, and detailed, methods and step by step plans, contained in one of the top rated relationship guides reviewed on this blog. Before you take any steps to improve your relationship, please make sure you are using the additional, and vital, information from one of these relationship guides, as failure to do so could lead to you making serious mistakes.