How to catch a LIAR or a CHEAT??

Lies are easy to detect once you have a few tools in your belt.

This technique is a darn reliable ‘lie detector’

Here’s how it works…

Let’s say Cindy suspects Tom of having Cyber Sex with some little skank.

But she’s not totally sure…

She does not want to go snooping and trying to crack his computer passwords for fear that Tom is innocent.

Likewise…

Coming right out and asking doesn’t usually yield ANY positive outcome…right?

If he’s guilty he’s not likely to admit it…

and…

If he’s innocent…then he feels untrusted, hurt and demeaned.

Here’s a much easier way to strap Tom to a lie detector and he won’t even know what’s going on:-)

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Conversation Catalyst Technique
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You simply insert a catalyst. A catalyst is a chemistry term…that in simple terms is a chemical that is introduced to get a reaction.

So…

What Cindy does is find an article on Cyber Sex and Cyber Cheating…or she can even tell a story about what
happened to a friend…etc.

Then she opens a conversation and INSERTS the catalyst.

She needs to do it in a very casual…and non-chalant way.

Say while doing the dishes would be PERFECT..she says…

“I was reading an article in Cosmo about how Cyber Sex and Cyber Cheating is on the rise and happening to more and more couples…I guess Cyber Sex would be considered cheating?”

“What are your thoughts?”

(IMPORTANT: Cindy now gauges Tom’s reaction and how WILLING he is to talk about the subject.)

A short…”I think it’s cheating.” and then an uncomfortable change of subject…is NOT a good sign.

Especially…when Cindy probes further…with

“Interesting…Why do you feel that way?”

If he continues calm, cool and collected…Tom’s most likely NOT Cyber Sex’n behind Cindy’s back.

If he continues to shut down the conversation…especially when there is nothing else to do, but dry the silly dishes…

Then…

Cindy should p-r-o-b-a-b-l-y start taking a look at Tom’s computer…cell…etc.

The conversation catalyst as a lie detector can be pulled out in ALL KINDS of situations…and not only
with adults, but teenagers and kids too.

Suspect that lil’ Johnny has been stealing from the stash of Kit Kats?

Insert *Conversation Catalyst* and ask him his thoughts about a time that you stole something when you were a kid.

Then watch his reaction and willingness to talk about it.

Now…

You may be wondering?

If he/she fails the test…where do you go from here?

Click HERE to find out.

How do you get them to admit it?

Click HERE to find out.

Are there other techniques for situations that don’t fit the *Conversation Catalyst*

Yes!

Check this out- Cliche HERE:

And if you suspect your partner of ‘cheating’, but aren’t sure? This is a very valuable resource:

Click HERE to grab the resource

Hope the *Conversation Catalyst Technique* and above site serves you well.